How to Let Go of the Past

Are you afraid that if you let go of the past that you will lose control over your life? If you answered yes, you are not alone. You may be afraid that if you let go of the past, that your life will be in shambles. Many women feel that they need to control every aspect of their divorce and their … [Read more...]

Divorce Stories We Tell

There are many divorce stories we tell ourselves as well as others. We may reserve certain stories for our closest friends and may keep some of them to ourselves. When you think about your divorce, what stories automatically come to mind? What if you think of someone else's divorce? Chances are … [Read more...]

Ask Cindy: Should I be Friends with My Ex?

I am recently divorced and have remained friends with my ex-husband. Usually we get along fine and will go out to breakfast with him just as a friend and to talk. Sometimes he will come to my apartment to fix things and I’ll make him dinner. We do not have any children. I do not hate him, however … [Read more...]

Divorce Anger: Poison to Your Soul

Divorce and anger go hand in hand. After all, the two of you are getting divorced because of communication problems and/or an affair. It is perfectly normal to get angry when people don’t act the way we think they should, or when things don’t go the way we want it to. It’s when you become consumed … [Read more...]

Dealing with an Ex Husband that is Irresponsible

You’re dealing with an ex-husband that is irresponsible and wonder what to tell your children? > There are many levels of irresponsibility. Is he irresponsible because he picks your children up late (if at all,) breaks promises, doesn’t see them, and forgets their birthday? Little Christy … [Read more...]

Overcoming the Top Three Fears of Divorce

“Fears are nothing more than a state of mind” Napoleon Hill When going through a divorce one experiences a barrage of emotions. Within a 30-minute timeframe, you can go from anger, sadness, depression, laughing to full of fear and anguish. Oftentimes fear can begin an onslaught of more negative … [Read more...]

5 Strategies to Learn to Love Yourself and Gain Confidence

After her divorce, Paula felt very alone and did not have much confidence in herself. She had devoted her entire life to taking care of her husband, children and anyone else who happened along the way. She did not feel that she was worthy or contributing to the world unless she was giving others … [Read more...]

10 Tips For Successful Online Dating

Many women choose online dating services when they decide to begin dating after divorce. It is one of the easiest ways to meet men as long as you stay safe and follow these 10 tips for successful online dating. 1.    Use Free Email Account Use a separate free email account for dating purposes. … [Read more...]

10 Ways to Celebrate Your Divorce

At first, you might think, “I do not want to celebrate my divorce!” Your divorce is the end of an era. It may well be an ending that you did not ask for and that you did not want. You may have fought tooth and nail to save your marriage. You may have bargained, pleaded, lost weight, wore sexy … [Read more...]

7 Tips to Remain Sane During Divorce

You can remain sane during divorce! For whatever reason some men choose to prolong the divorce proceedings. Reasons may include that the divorcing couple just cannot agree on how to split marital assets. Other reasons he may drag his feet is to make you feel disempowered and out of control. He may … [Read more...]