How to Let Go of the Past

Are you afraid that if you let go of the past that you will lose control over your life? If you answered yes, you are not alone. You may be afraid that if you let go of the past, that your life will be in shambles. Many women feel that they need to control every aspect of their divorce and their … [Read more...]

Ask Cindy: Should I be Friends with My Ex?

I am recently divorced and have remained friends with my ex-husband. Usually we get along fine and will go out to breakfast with him just as a friend and to talk. Sometimes he will come to my apartment to fix things and I’ll make him dinner. We do not have any children. I do not hate him, however … [Read more...]

Dealing with an Ex Husband that is Irresponsible

You’re dealing with an ex-husband that is irresponsible and wonder what to tell your children? > There are many levels of irresponsibility. Is he irresponsible because he picks your children up late (if at all,) breaks promises, doesn’t see them, and forgets their birthday? Little Christy … [Read more...]

Dating After Divorce: Are You Ready?

The thought of dating after divorce can seem both frightening and exhilarating at the same time. It has probably been years since you’ve been out on a date. You think that dating has changed and you don’t know the rules. On the other hand, the prospect of a man ringing your door bell and handing … [Read more...]

Overcoming the Top Three Fears of Divorce

“Fears are nothing more than a state of mind” Napoleon Hill When going through a divorce one experiences a barrage of emotions. Within a 30-minute timeframe, you can go from anger, sadness, depression, laughing to full of fear and anguish. Oftentimes fear can begin an onslaught of more negative … [Read more...]

10 Tips For Successful Online Dating

Many women choose online dating services when they decide to begin dating after divorce. It is one of the easiest ways to meet men as long as you stay safe and follow these 10 tips for successful online dating. 1.    Use Free Email Account Use a separate free email account for dating purposes. … [Read more...]

10 Ways to Celebrate Your Divorce

At first, you might think, “I do not want to celebrate my divorce!” Your divorce is the end of an era. It may well be an ending that you did not ask for and that you did not want. You may have fought tooth and nail to save your marriage. You may have bargained, pleaded, lost weight, wore sexy … [Read more...]

Stop Letting Your Ex Push Your Buttons

Does your ex have a habit of pushing your buttons?  Do you feel like you have to be right and react to the buttons? Are you ready to stop letting your ex push your buttons? The truth is that both you and your ex have fallen into a habitual routine. He says or does something - out of habit. You … [Read more...]

10 Things for a Woman to do After Divorce

After divorce, many women find that they have plenty of time on their hands. They no longer have to look after the husband or abide by his wishes and concerns. She can do what and when she pleases. While it may seem energizing, it can also be confusing and scary. Here is a list of ten things a … [Read more...]

3 Types of Divorce Support - Which One is Right for You?

Getting divorce support is a part of the healing process. It allows you to let go and move on with your life. You need to be able to feel safe in sharing your feelings and the support needs to be able to allow you to be in the drivers seat. It may appear to be difficult to get the type of divorce … [Read more...]